From Hero to Zero
On my journey through healing and moving on, I came across the piece below. It really does hit the nail on the head. I recall many occasions hearing how he would drop everything and help someone out, even if it cost him time and money. This was the point where I attempted a discussion on boundaries (bad idea, don't try this maneuver, don't teach a narc adult basic human decency, it won't turn out well). He would get angry when, because he did so and so a favor the exact time they needed it, they wouldn't drop everything they were doing right now and help him. Plan ahead???? Pfft ... for shame the thought should cross your mind!!!! I saw many people landing on his shit list because ... gasp .... they have boundaries. Much like myself. Credit for this wonderful piece of work goes to Updated on December 19, 2017 The Little Shaman more The Little Shaman is a spiritual counselor, hypnotherapy practitioner, and a specialist in Cluster B personality disord